you know those visits where everything is fun, easy and peaceful?
well, that's how it is with her.
i always look forward to our time together because our talks are comfort food for my soul.
our visits have become a comfortable routine.
i walk through her front door,
put down my purse and keys,
and make my way to her kitchen--that's where she waits for me.
she greets me with her familiar "Hola, Prima"
and her loving arms that wrap around me in a big hug
that always warms my heart.
and, because she knows me so well,
a delicious cup of tea waits for me.
i take my place at her diningroom table,
sipping my tea,
and watching in awe as she dances around her kitchen
creating delicious meals and baked goodies for the people in her life.
i'm often complimented on my role as a step-mother
and, in my heart, i always share the compliment with her
because, you see, she is the one that has taught me what I know about parenting.
i admire that her greatest concern has always been her children.
she's an incredible mother and because of her, her kids have learned
how to make healthy choices and
to own their actions.
she has encouraged them to have a voice
but reminds them to be respectful when speaking up.
she has taught them about change while
reminding them that the one consistent thing--the one thing
they can always count on--
is her steady and deep love for them.
today, i know there is no better gift you could give a child.
and, because it's the season to give thanks, i hope that this simple thank you is enough
thank you for never tiring of letting me vent
thank you for all the valuable life lessons you have shared with me
thank you for your honesty
thank you for guarding my secrets
thank you for your cozy home that you so generously share
thank you for your loyalty
thank you for giving me so much to think about
thank you for always making me feel safe
thank you for all you teach me--
especially the latest recipe of comfort food-- Sopa de Papa.
